I really liked this one Ali. I must say I’m guilty of the chocolate diaper game at mine- althoigh no one had to eat it. My husband was actually not allowed to come - by my friends mom who hosted it. He stayed at home, drank beer with his best friend and set up the nursery.
It’s interesting how you mention the best baby shower you went to had both men and women, as I recently attended one like this and it was really nice. Low-key, just hanging out, celebrating the couple- basically exactly how you described