Thank you for sharing your thoughts :). You aren’t the first person in these comments to assume I was putting the onus on mom’s to fix the problem - so clearly this is my bad in the way I wrote it. By saying “we” need to change things i wasn’t targeting moms, more society as a whole - moms and dads equally.
I agree that we can’t put everything on the next generation but I am more hopeful that we have the time to change things for them.